Are you wondering if there are signs that tell if your sweetheart will never leave you? There is no 100 percent fail-proof guarantee, but if you see these signs in your relationship, it is likely she will never leave you.
1. You treat her with respect
When a man treats a woman with respect, it says a lot about him. It tells her that he values women, and does not treat them like an object or possession. There are too many men who do not have these qualities. If you treat her with respect, you will earn her respect in return.
2. You support her dreams
One key to keeping your sweetheart close is supporting her. If you stifle her growth or crush her dreams, she may turn to someone else for the support she needs. Believe in her. Help her find a way to make her dreams a reality. Set realistic goals and never give up. If you support her, she will confide in you.
3. You fight fair
Everyone fights – even the best couples. But you have to fight fair. No name calling, no low blows and obviously no physical or mental abuse. Try to stay calm, don’t accuse each other and be open to listening. If you fight fair, you will avoid hurting each other.
4. You love her at her worst
Nobody is perfect. We all have bad habits, we all do things we know we shouldn’t and we have moments we wish we could take back. It is important to realize that her imperfections make her who she is, and you need to love her bad qualities as much as her good ones. If you love her despite her flaws, then you will never have a reason to stop loving each other.
5. You give her space
While it is important to be connected and united, it is OK to do things without each other. Just because she wants to do something away from you does not mean she does not love you. It means she is still pursuing those things that made you fall in love with her in the first place. If you give her space, she will continue to grow as an individual.
6. You love her family
A woman’s family is important to her. They may drive her crazy and get on her nerves, but they are her family. Even if you are not best friends with her siblings, you can still love them for helping make her who she is. She will most likely take your side in a fight, but don’t put her in the middle of one. It will definitely put a strain on your relationship.
7. You challenge her
Relationships are challenging. Getting along with another person is difficult, but it is important to challenge yourself. That means challenging your patience, ideals, humility and courage, and not being afraid to step out of your comfort zone. If you can challenge your spouse in just a few of these areas, it is a good thing.
This means your relationship is growing and developing. Call each other out when you are doing something wrong, and help each other be better. If you challenge her, you are helping her.
If you are doing these things, you are helping your sweetheart become a better person and she’ll never want to leave you.